How to Deal With a Crush


A crush is a strong feeling of romantic or sexual interest in someone. It’s a form of attraction that’s not necessarily mutual but that may lead to infidelity, even though there’s no real chance for a relationship. A crush can cause the person to act strangely, including blushing, acting jealous or ignoring their own friends. It can also have a negative effect on the person’s current relationship or job. Despite the dangers, it’s not uncommon to develop a crush while in a committed relationship, but these crushes usually do not destroy primary relationships. A study found that people who have a crush usually do not expect it to lead to intimacy, but rather want to maintain friendly or flirtatious interactions with their crush and occasionally fantasize about intimate involvement (Source: Coded excerpts from n = 513 respondents reporting a crush).

Having a crush is exciting, but it’s important to remember that it’s not healthy. Crushes can lead to feelings of jealousy, resentment and even depression. It’s best to only share your feelings with close friends who will support you. It’s also not a good idea to blab about your crush to anyone else, because they might tell your crush and you could be embarrassed.

When you are talking to your crush, try to keep eye contact as much as possible. This will make them feel like you’re interested in them and will increase their chances of reciprocating that feeling. Eye contact will also show your crush that you are confident, which is attractive in their eyes.

It’s also a good idea to talk about things you have in common with your crush. For example, you could ask them what their favorite food is or what kind of music they listen to. This will give you a chance to compliment them on their taste in music, which they will likely appreciate.

You can also ask your crush about their best friend and what they value in a friendship. This will give you a chance to see how well you would get along with them. You can also learn about their values and see if they are similar to yours.

A linguist has suggested that the word crush is derived from the verb to “mash,” which meant to flirt or fall head over heels in love with someone in the 19th century. By the early 20th century, it had become a noun, and to have a crush on someone was to be infatuated with them.

The movie Crush is a fairly typical teen rom-com, but it does have one thing going for it—an inclusive cast that includes many openly gay actors. Unfortunately, the film’s low bar for storytelling and lack of nuance leaves it lacking in humor and humanity. It also feels like a reassurance that parent distributor Disney is willing to portray nominal representation, even as it goes back and forth on supporting anti-LGBTQ legislation. In short, a crushing bore.