Crush is a sweet, teen romance that celebrates same-sex love without letting the topic overwhelm the rest of the story. A likable cast and sunny cinematography elevate this movie, but the characters could have used more characterization to bring depth to their feelings and relationships. In particular, Paige’s homosexuality feels more like a plot point than a real character trait.
One encapsulating lay definition describes having a crush as “a secret, burning desire for someone you admire, with whom there is low or no chance of being a couple.” This type of relationship can be romantic or platonic. It can even be a work colleague or BFF. But regardless of the nature of the crush, it can be emotionally challenging if you are already in another relationship.
A crush can be a painful, unrequited experience — and for people in committed relationships, it can seem adolescent or creepy. But it can also be a helpful way to keep you going through the monotony of everyday life and provide a little spark of hope.
In the movie, Paige is an aspiring artist with a scholarship to the art school of her dreams on the horizon and a platonic soulmate named Dillon (Tyler Alvarez) at her side. But despite the supportive environment she inhabits with her cynical school coach and her open-minded mother (played by Will & Grace’s Megan Mullally), her obsession with her longtime friend and teammate, Gabby (Isabella Ferreira), consumes her thoughts.
Whether you have a crush on a fellow student or coworker, it’s important to be aware of how your actions may impact them. It’s best to take things slow, especially if you know that your crush is in a commitment or may have a partner. Flirting and getting to know them may help you decide how to proceed — but even that can be difficult.
Do you tend to shy away from conversation when your crush is around? Do you blush a lot or have a hard time making eye contact with them? These are all signs of a crush. People often get tongue-tied when they are around their crush because they want to make a good impression. This may be why they talk over their friends or don’t answer questions when asked.
As a result, a crush can be embarrassing, especially when it’s unrequited. But, it’s important to remember that it doesn’t have to be this way if you take steps to manage the situation appropriately. With the right strategies, you can avoid the crushing feeling of a crush and make your next relationship one that lasts.