Dominoes

A small rectangular block used as a gaming object, marked with two groups of dots resembling those on dice. Dominos are sometimes called bones, men, or stones and are used to play a variety of games. A domino is a key element in the bestselling book Influence by Robert Cialdini, which explains how a small initial action can create a chain reaction with surprisingly large effects.

When it comes to writing, the domino effect is the idea that one scene in a story can set off a cascade of scenes. For example, you might have a scene where a character is standing in the middle of a group of people. As he or she gives a little nudge to the person directly in front of him, that person will then do something else, which will then cause someone else to do something even more significant and so on. This can be a very effective way to show the progression of a story, especially in nonfiction.

Dominoes are also a common component of popular board and card games. In addition to the usual blocking and scoring games, players can compete in domino shows, in which they try to build elaborate chains of dominoes before an audience. For example, a domino artist named Hevesh once created an intricate display of more than 76,017 dominoes that took several nail-biting minutes to fall.

The most commonly used dominoes are made of plastic or resin, but some are made of wood, bone, or ivory. Historically, dominoes were made from a combination of bone or silver lip ocean pearl oyster shell (mother of pearl), ivory and a dark hardwood such as ebony, with contrasting black or white pips inlaid in either color. Some sets are “extended” to increase the number of possible combinations of ends; examples include double-nine (55 tiles), double-12 (91 tiles), and double-18 (190 tiles).

There are many variations on the game, but most involve placing dominoes edge to edge against each other so that the pips match on both adjacent sides or form some specified total. The first player to reach the required total wins the round.

In some variants, each player passes if he or she cannot place a domino. Then, the remaining dominoes are arranged so that each player has an equal number of dominoes on his or her side of the table. Then, each player places a domino on the table, positioning it so that it touches one of the matching ends of the other dominoes. The shape of the resulting chain is determined by luck, skill, and/or the limitations of the playing surface.

A skilled player can use the positioning of a domino to his or her advantage, such as putting a double on top of a line of singles and thus creating a long snake-like sequence. The resulting chain of dominoes can then be used to score points.

What Is Love?

Love is a concept whose roots can be found in religion, philosophy and anthropology. However, it wasn’t until the 20th century that psychologists began to study the idea of love as a distinct phenomenon. Since then, the disciplines of psychology, anthropology and neuroscience have added to our understanding of this complex emotion.

While love can be defined in many different ways, most experts agree that it is composed of three components. These are called intimacy, passion and decision/commitment. The amount of each component in a particular relationship determines whether or not the relationship is considered to be “love.”

Intimacy relates to how close two people feel to each other, including the degree to which they trust and care for one another. The intimacy of a relationship is the foundation upon which everything else rests. Passion relates to the feelings of arousal and sexual attraction that can be felt for someone. In romantic relationships, this is typically the more dominant form of love. Decision/commitment relates to the determination that two people will remain together despite adversity or challenges. This is a very important factor in long-term happiness in relationships.

From an evolutionary perspective, love evolved to keep parents and their offspring bonded and committed to one another over the long period of time needed for young people to mature into adults. This form of love, sometimes called maternal or paternal love, is rooted in the biological drive to provide for and protect offspring until they are capable of surviving on their own.

There is also a spiritual or divine form of love, often associated with religious faiths. This type of love is characterized by compassion and mercy for the suffering of others, and is often seen as an act of worship. Those who practice this form of love are called bhaktas, or devotees. This form of love is often accompanied by a feeling of ecstasy and mystical union with a higher power.

In reality, there will probably be days or weeks or even months when you don’t feel all mushy-gushy in love with your partner. That’s okay, and it’s actually a good thing. It means that you’re in a healthy relationship, and that your love is truly alive. It’s the kind of love that keeps you going when things aren’t easy, and it makes sticking it out worth it in the end.

This type of true love, the kind that lasts through all the tough times, is the sort that you see in the lives of people like Martin Luther King Jr., Mahatma Gandhi, Maya Angelou and Oprah Winfrey. Their selfless love has promoted the well-being of others on a global scale. It’s the kind of love that most of us would want to emulate if we could. That’s why it’s important to remember that while love is a feeling, it’s also a choice.